Popularity is a tough nut to crack, being popular in the rave scene is even harder. There are so many other girls to compete with and they all seem so much hotter than you. Luckily we have some tips to help.

• Rave girls are confident

All the other girls seem so much more together, composed, and sexy. Fortunatly we have some news for you, its an act. Most of the popular women are just as insecure as you feel, they just hide it better. So next time you are out and you having a bout of insecurity just remember even the most social girls feel the same way.

• Rave girls are socially aware and good conversationalists

There you are talking to the guy, when you realize you have nothing to say. Are you boring ? Don't worry we all are, what separates people able to carry on a conversation and those who can not are two basic skills.

One, ask questions, the more the other person is talking the less you have too. People love to share about themselves and want to be heard. You will be considered the ultimate conversationalist if you just listen.

Two, pick a topic of social interest and use that as your pet cause. Essentially have an interesting topic that is not too out there and has little to do with yourself. This allows the person to find you accessible and interesting while minimizing the opportunity's for you to say something embarrassing.

• Rave girls dress ultra sexy in a playful way

Sexy and Slutty are not the same thing. Dress provocative but don't go over the top with it every time you are out at the club or where ever you know your going to be seen at. By alternating between ultra-sexy and understated but attractive you make the boys guess what your about and interested in.

• Rave girls dress right for all occasions.

Lets revisit the dress code for a second. Sexy at all times right ? Well no. Have enough taste to know that a lunch at Taco Bell is not the same as a dinner at a 4 star restaurant. If you know the difference and can dress appropriately you will be light years ahead of the other girls.

• Rave girls talk to lots of boys but commit to none

Flirt girl! Its your birthright, claim it own it while you can. You don't want to be 60 looking back on these years thinking of what you could have done.

Thats it girls ! Good luck :-)